Complications of a relationship

Sometimes I really wonder what's the point of being in a relationship. Don't you think everything's so complicated? Like you think, oh, I don't think he'll like me doing it, so you stop doing it, or you do it much much lesser than usual, and then suddenly you find him doing it and it irritates the shit out of you.

But then again you were the only one who gave it up willingly, right? So don't go around expecting him to return the favour when he didn't ask for it in the first place. I think this is a perfect situation of 'lor lei chin'.